COLLECTING FOR BEGINNERS:
GOOD TRADING ETIQUITTE

There are several different areas in which good etiquette is required during the course of a trade. If people follow these (usually) unwritten rules, then all should and will go well with the trade:

OFFERINING A TRADE

RECORDING THE MATERIAL

PREPARING TO SEND

SENDING

The American Postal Service is actually very reliable. I have been trading for 5 years, probably sent out hundreds of packages, and only 2 have ever been lost. That is indeed very good odds, but this varies from country to counrty.

WHAT IF YOU DONT RECEIVE YOUR PACKAGE
This is a situation that every trader has had to deal with at one point or another, and it is a hard one to deal with. If the person does rip you off one of three things will happen:
  1. They will not respond to your emails: If this is the case keep on them. Send them emails every single day and if your parcel doesn't arrive within a reasonable time then submit their name to the Official LiveNirvana.Com BAD TRADERS List. Upon completion of these tasks move on with your life. It happens to everyone, and uploading his name to the Bad Traders List will ensure that he doesn't get anymore NIRVANA trades any time soon.

  2. They will respond to your email and string you along: If this is the case, set a date and if they do not send by that date upload there name to the Bad Traders List. That will usually catalyze the sending process, and if it does not, move on. They are now branded bad traders and you will go on to a successful trading career.

  3. They will claim that the quality of your stuff is bad (or broken) and say they refuse to send: If they claim the material is poor quality or broken ask them to send it back to you. If they fail to send it back, list them as a BAD TRADER. If you get a bad feeling about the trade don't ever trade with them again.

If a trader claims that they never received your stuff... And you KNOW that you never received their stuff, THEY ARE PROBABLY LYING. Unfortunately, the Bad Traders List doesnt cover this. Just curse under your breath and send using delivery confirmation next time. According to most traders over 80% of all parcels arrive on time.

AFTER A SUCESSFUL TRADE
Once your trade is finished keep in touch with people you have traded with. The BEST way to get a lot of shows is to find a small group of traders you are really comfortable with and just trade repeatedly. It is also good to add the person to your reference list. (NOTE: Some people elect not to keep such a list because it enables anyone trying to track people down instant access to what is effectively your personal address book.)